That Went Well: Adventures in Caring for My Sister

• Publisher:   Hyperion
• Number Of Pages:   224
• Publication Date:   2009-01-06
• ISBN-10 / ASIN:   1401323294
• ISBN-13 / EAN:   9781401323295

"Dougan gets very personal ... exposing the nerve and dedication necessary to foster independence in a sibling with special needs ... A touching, surprisingly funny tough-love narrative."
--Kirkus Reviews

"Terrell Dougan writes with humor, humanity, and complete honesty. In this tale of two sisters--one who never gives up her dolls, one who never loses her pluck--she takes readers on a thought-provoking, endearing journey through life. Along the way, she shows readers the changing social attitudes of the last half-century, and her personal odyssey from resistance to acceptance."
--Rachel Simon, author of Riding the Bus with My Sister

"With heartache and humor, tenderness and honesty, Dougan inspires us to remember the kindness, joy, and grace that forever remain life's possibility."
--Andrew Bridge, author of Hope's Boy

"Enormously touching, funny, wise, breathtakingly honest, and compellingly readable."
--Judith Viorst, author of Forever Fifty

"Funny, and wonderful, and horrible, and happy and sad."
--Muffy Mead-Ferro, author of Confessions of a Slacker Mom

"Irene is a very special lady who makes others feel better about lots of things."
--Kim Peek, the original model for Rain Man

Meet Terrell Dougan's sister, Irene: a woman in her sixties who still believes in Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny--but who also enjoys playing those characters for the children at the local hospital; whose favorite outfit, which she'll sneak into whenever Terrell's back is turned, consists of Mickey Mouse kneesocks and shorts; who wins over the neighborhood kids by hosting two fire trucks at her lemonade stand; whose fridge bears a magnet: NORMAL PEOPLE WORRY ME.

When Irene was born, her parents were advised to institutionalize her. They refused and instead became trailblazers in advocating for the rights of people with mental disabilities. The entire family benefited, with a life rich in stress, sorrows, hilarity, joy, and overwhelming kindness from strangers. Terrell has found that the only way to get through the difficult moments is to laugh--even in the most trying of times. In her moving, funny, and unforgettable memoir about life with Irene, Terrell Dougan shows that love, humor, and compassion are enough to heal us, every single day.

A portrait of a family determined to both provide opportunities for their disadvantaged daughter, and to maintain their sense of humor. A funny and inspiring slice of life.

I expected more from this book. It seemed to be more of a book about the author and look at me kind of thing. Maybe I just misread into it but I was disappointed in it.

_That Went Well_ shows a lot of humor and determination as the Harris family worked to provide opportunities for their mentally impaired daughter. There were a few a-ha moments where I realized, had the Harris family (and Dougan family) not had personal and professional connections, they would not have been able to champion their cause to the degree that they did. Good story, and helps those who work with people with any impairment have an inside view into how ADA became a reality.

This book was very inspiring and moving. It addresses a subject that people don't like to think about, people with special needs.

This book really opened my eyes to the challenges held by siblings of people with special needs. I have worked with over 800 kids and adults with special needs, but this book still made me think about things that never occurred to me. It made me realize how difficult it is for siblings when their parents are gone and they wonder who's going to take care of their sibling when they're gone. I've read many books about people with special needs, but they usually don't span the whole life of that person. They also don't provide a historical background of how that disability is being handled in society. This book did both. If you know someone with special needs or you really want to open your eyes to what it's like to know someone with special needs, I recommend this book.

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